Sumtym's tha hardest ting we can ever do is give up on sum1.. Especially sum1 we once thought we wud spend tha rest of our lives with... I know 4 sum of us,bein happy only seems 2 happen wen we r wit sum1 else and leavin dat person often means a time period of bein unhappy and alone. If a person isn't makin u better or happy u ave 2 leave. Constant unhappiness is very unhealthy no matter how much u fink u love dat person..U fink bout how u mite b makin the wrong choice and it aint as bad as u r makin it seem... U ask ur friends who r also unhappy in their relationships and dey give u advice dat u then don't care 2 take, wot do they know? Stayin with sum1 hu isn't right 4 us is very emotionally drainin... It puts a damper on ur life and blinds u of real happiness. U can never try and better urself with a cancer around u... No matter how hard u try 2 b happy with ur job, ur family, ur well being, it won't seem like u are happy because u have this cancer around u bringin u down.. Kick them 2 the curb and enjoy life for wot it is. Be honest with urself. Be responsible for ur own happiness and stop relying on others to make and keep you happy.