I find that some women do things unintentionally to keep a man away. I thought I'd try and help with that. A few tips that might make a man come around.
First,STOP HANGING WITH SO MANY GUYS. As a guy,I kno that all the females I hang around or have hung around I wanted 2 have sex with. I mean I might not b tryin 2 but the thought has crossed my mind.So if I see u with a guy in public Imma either think that is ur man or he is a guy who wants 2 have sex with u lol. If u not wearin a shirt or a sticker that says "he is just my brother" I won't be approaching u. Gay boy friends count as boys 2. All these women datin downlow men,I never kno if ya gay boyfriend is ya boyfriend or girlfriend. If u with a guy,u are unapproachable.
Second, STOP listenin 2 ur friends. A guy is turned off by a woman who lets her friend determines the fate of her love life. The more nosey friends u got,the less attractive u appear. Wen u are in public with ur girl friend(s) some guys may not want 2 approach u. It's like we have 2 do double the work. Not only do I have 2 introduce myself and get ur number,ur friend has 2 approve of me and allow u 2 give me ur number. So.. Group women in public I stay away from.
Third, UR PAST DOES NOT EXIST! If we just "talkin" and "hangin" out.. I do NOT want 2 hear bout ur past guys. I don't want 2 hear bout ur ex because ur ex is NOT thinkin bout u. Don't waste the time we investin in 1 another 2 think on the past. Wen u tell me bout ur ex its like u tryin 2 warn me,yes but it leads me 2 believe that u aren't over it and I really shouldn't b here. Keep war stories on hold until we get deeper in2 it. We have all been hurt, we all kno right from wrong so I don't need u 2 tell me about HOW u were hurt by another guy. Keep that wound closed.
Also, STOP dressin like a whore, a teenage girl or a boy. A lot of older girls still wear boy tennis shoes. Invest in some shoes with heels on em. A lot of 20 someting females still haven't invested in dresses. I mean,u can wear jeans but.. Everyday though? LOOOOOL! Ur closet is too casual. I don't want to date the homegirl and you dress like just the home girl. Guys like a girl who is jus a little in tune with the fashion world.
STOP with the MAKE UP! Ladies.. The reason guys DON'T like make up is because u have 2 take the shit off eventually. Stop dolling urself up just 2 kick it with me. Like,if u look lik u stuck ur face in a pie,I jus don't want u huggin me. Brown shit all on my pillow cases, T-shirts and covers. If I think u kyoot and u got the make up on and then u take it off and I dont like u,will that b wrong? If u wear a shit load of fake hair and I only lik u with the weave,is that a problem? One day I will have 2 see u without it,will I still find u attractive? That is the question.
to be continued...
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