I find that some women do things unintentionally to keep a man away. I thought I'd try and help with that. A few tips that might make a man come around.
First,STOP HANGING WITH SO MANY GUYS. As a guy,I kno that all the females I hang around or have hung around I wanted 2 have sex with. I mean I might not b tryin 2 but the thought has crossed my mind.So if I see u with a guy in public Imma either think that is ur man or he is a guy who wants 2 have sex with u lol. If u not wearin a shirt or a sticker that says "he is just my brother" I won't be approaching u. Gay boy friends count as boys 2. All these women datin downlow men,I never kno if ya gay boyfriend is ya boyfriend or girlfriend. If u with a guy,u are unapproachable.
Second, STOP listenin 2 ur friends. A guy is turned off by a woman who lets her friend determines the fate of her love life. The more nosey friends u got,the less attractive u appear. Wen u are in public with ur girl friend(s) some guys may not want 2 approach u. It's like we have 2 do double the work. Not only do I have 2 introduce myself and get ur number,ur friend has 2 approve of me and allow u 2 give me ur number. So.. Group women in public I stay away from.
Third, UR PAST DOES NOT EXIST! If we just "talkin" and "hangin" out.. I do NOT want 2 hear bout ur past guys. I don't want 2 hear bout ur ex because ur ex is NOT thinkin bout u. Don't waste the time we investin in 1 another 2 think on the past. Wen u tell me bout ur ex its like u tryin 2 warn me,yes but it leads me 2 believe that u aren't over it and I really shouldn't b here. Keep war stories on hold until we get deeper in2 it. We have all been hurt, we all kno right from wrong so I don't need u 2 tell me about HOW u were hurt by another guy. Keep that wound closed.
Also, STOP dressin like a whore, a teenage girl or a boy. A lot of older girls still wear boy tennis shoes. Invest in some shoes with heels on em. A lot of 20 someting females still haven't invested in dresses. I mean,u can wear jeans but.. Everyday though? LOOOOOL! Ur closet is too casual. I don't want to date the homegirl and you dress like just the home girl. Guys like a girl who is jus a little in tune with the fashion world.
STOP with the MAKE UP! Ladies.. The reason guys DON'T like make up is because u have 2 take the shit off eventually. Stop dolling urself up just 2 kick it with me. Like,if u look lik u stuck ur face in a pie,I jus don't want u huggin me. Brown shit all on my pillow cases, T-shirts and covers. If I think u kyoot and u got the make up on and then u take it off and I dont like u,will that b wrong? If u wear a shit load of fake hair and I only lik u with the weave,is that a problem? One day I will have 2 see u without it,will I still find u attractive? That is the question.
to be continued...
About Me
Saturday, 13 March 2010
Tuesday, 9 March 2010
Sumtym's tha hardest ting we can ever do is give up on sum1.. Especially sum1 we once thought we wud spend tha rest of our lives with... I know 4 sum of us,bein happy only seems 2 happen wen we r wit sum1 else and leavin dat person often means a time period of bein unhappy and alone. If a person isn't makin u better or happy u ave 2 leave. Constant unhappiness is very unhealthy no matter how much u fink u love dat person..U fink bout how u mite b makin the wrong choice and it aint as bad as u r makin it seem... U ask ur friends who r also unhappy in their relationships and dey give u advice dat u then don't care 2 take, wot do they know? Stayin with sum1 hu isn't right 4 us is very emotionally drainin... It puts a damper on ur life and blinds u of real happiness. U can never try and better urself with a cancer around u... No matter how hard u try 2 b happy with ur job, ur family, ur well being, it won't seem like u are happy because u have this cancer around u bringin u down.. Kick them 2 the curb and enjoy life for wot it is. Be honest with urself. Be responsible for ur own happiness and stop relying on others to make and keep you happy.
"So.. How many people have u slept with?"
Member this question?,Why do we ask that question?
Mayb kuz we dont want 2 b dating sum1 who has "got around." Dont want 2 b datin a hoe or slut bag and b talked bout on the low.
Well now dat u have fucked round and kno a few more things,is dat question still relevant?
I say yes,me personally.. I'm bout 2 start askin dat question wen dealing with women. Is it 2 peep out tha hoes and sluts? Nope, cause if we go off numberz Im probably hoe... Its 2 c hu has experience and hu dont! Girls b tryin 2 b conservative and horrible in bed... I need a girl hu kno's how 2 suck me off,throw it back,got perfect four play,all dat good shit dat kum wit havin sex. Yh u can b all I want an mo' BUT wot bout pleasin me in bed,can u put a lot of focus on dat? Matter of fact,I need a resume and references. I need tha numbers of ur ex's so dey can clarify errrything u say LOOOOOOOOOOOL!. No more braggin b4 u have sex with sum1, jus c their resume.. *Rolls back resume* "I can c u good @ givin head,not good @ aving sex in tha shower due 2 case ur hair gets wet.. U lik it 4rm tha back.. U dont swallow" O'wait.. Im not hirin but I'll call u if things change... C how easy dat wud b? No more gettin down 2 tha fcukin den realize this ma fucka lied 2 yo ass!
So 4rm now on im askin all girls i deal wit 4 resumes,references and numberz!!!! No need 4 me 2 waste my time is it? No need 4 women 2 get in the bedroom and figure out dude got the smallest dick they have ever seen is it? Lets cut all the bull shit and stop wastin time... Show me yo resume bitch!!! Peaaaaaaaaaaace!!
Member this question?,Why do we ask that question?
Mayb kuz we dont want 2 b dating sum1 who has "got around." Dont want 2 b datin a hoe or slut bag and b talked bout on the low.
Well now dat u have fucked round and kno a few more things,is dat question still relevant?
I say yes,me personally.. I'm bout 2 start askin dat question wen dealing with women. Is it 2 peep out tha hoes and sluts? Nope, cause if we go off numberz Im probably hoe... Its 2 c hu has experience and hu dont! Girls b tryin 2 b conservative and horrible in bed... I need a girl hu kno's how 2 suck me off,throw it back,got perfect four play,all dat good shit dat kum wit havin sex. Yh u can b all I want an mo' BUT wot bout pleasin me in bed,can u put a lot of focus on dat? Matter of fact,I need a resume and references. I need tha numbers of ur ex's so dey can clarify errrything u say LOOOOOOOOOOOL!. No more braggin b4 u have sex with sum1, jus c their resume.. *Rolls back resume* "I can c u good @ givin head,not good @ aving sex in tha shower due 2 case ur hair gets wet.. U lik it 4rm tha back.. U dont swallow" O'wait.. Im not hirin but I'll call u if things change... C how easy dat wud b? No more gettin down 2 tha fcukin den realize this ma fucka lied 2 yo ass!
So 4rm now on im askin all girls i deal wit 4 resumes,references and numberz!!!! No need 4 me 2 waste my time is it? No need 4 women 2 get in the bedroom and figure out dude got the smallest dick they have ever seen is it? Lets cut all the bull shit and stop wastin time... Show me yo resume bitch!!! Peaaaaaaaaaaace!!
Sunday, 10 January 2010
Rush 2 sleep
It sucks baby that I only get 2 c u wen Im asleep. Even wen Im sleeping wit another female,u show up an itz lik u have been waitin 4 me... Tha girl of my dreamz.. I can evam make out ur face but I kno tha feelin u give me is real.. I often nap jus so I can get a hug 4rm u. I kno they say dreams is sometimes a twist on reality and ur imagination and b gettin 2 caught up in dem it can possibly cause insanity.. I dont give a fuck.. Ill be insane then. Im bout 2 go 2 sleep now,jus so I can get a kiss an tell u bout my day!
Dating outside the race
I talked 2 a black older woman the other day. Sweet and beautiful lady. She woz flirtin with me big time so I jus sparked conversation with her while I woz @ work. Told me she had 2 kids. First baby daddy woz sum well off Italian guy. Her second baby daddy is a world class boxer, won't drop any names. Her new boyfrend is a well off Jewish lawyer... I asked woz her current boyfriend a black Jew or not and she turned 2 me and sed "I'm not attracted 2 black men anymore." I woz interested and asked her y. She sed dat her second baby daddy woz very aggressive. Very tite wit money even tho he woz rich. Said out of 20 black men 1 will pay her bills no question. Out of 20 white men, 19 will pay her bills no question. I asked her woz she in love with money or the guy and she sed both! Money is lik nice lips or a nice body,a guy with it jus makes thingz that much better. That made sense as shallow as it soundz. Sed the experiences she has had with black men has been nuttin but pain. No good has come 4rm any of them except her beautiful daughter. I understood that. I did understand, I am a blackman but I understood her kuz my father woz the same as the "blackmen" she talkin bout.
After she left I started questionin if I lik'd black women still and if I woz leanin away 4rm them more and more as I get older. One of the reasons is kuz I use 2 b broke as hell. I'm now financially where I want 2 b as of rite now. If u aint good,most black women ain't trying 2 fcuk with u. I broadcast a msg an asked "wot r women attracted 2 or wot does a guy need 4 a girl 2 fcuk with em..." Most of the replies had money first,then confidence appearance make them laugh etc. I am already ex'd off most of their list. Do I care? No. Most of them broke as hell as well. It's like u have 2 make a certain amount of money,b a certain height,dress a certain way. . All this damn screenin that I jus dont fit lol.
Even with all that said they still find sumthing 2 say, "Na u not my type." So we look @ brehs like Reggie Bush, and Wesley Snipes [amongst others] who dont date black women and judge them. Not me, mainly black women do. Most black men that has worked hard for their blessings or success.. or MONEY.. Had to struggle first. No one wanted 2 fcuk with them while they woz broke and average but wen that first pay check came, they all of a sudden became handsome. Or they mite see how black women then react 2 them. How money hungry they can b. Not sayin all r so dont be poppin off shit sayin U not. Not sayin other races aren't lik this but wen u deal with black women ur whole life n' u have had horrible experiences with them, once u find somethin different.. U will explore.
Am I done with black women. Not @ all! I luh my "sisters" but do I understand where da older lady is comin 4rm? Yes. Do I understand where Reggie Bush Snipes comin 4rm? Yes.
After she left I started questionin if I lik'd black women still and if I woz leanin away 4rm them more and more as I get older. One of the reasons is kuz I use 2 b broke as hell. I'm now financially where I want 2 b as of rite now. If u aint good,most black women ain't trying 2 fcuk with u. I broadcast a msg an asked "wot r women attracted 2 or wot does a guy need 4 a girl 2 fcuk with em..." Most of the replies had money first,then confidence appearance make them laugh etc. I am already ex'd off most of their list. Do I care? No. Most of them broke as hell as well. It's like u have 2 make a certain amount of money,b a certain height,dress a certain way. . All this damn screenin that I jus dont fit lol.
Even with all that said they still find sumthing 2 say, "Na u not my type." So we look @ brehs like Reggie Bush, and Wesley Snipes [amongst others] who dont date black women and judge them. Not me, mainly black women do. Most black men that has worked hard for their blessings or success.. or MONEY.. Had to struggle first. No one wanted 2 fcuk with them while they woz broke and average but wen that first pay check came, they all of a sudden became handsome. Or they mite see how black women then react 2 them. How money hungry they can b. Not sayin all r so dont be poppin off shit sayin U not. Not sayin other races aren't lik this but wen u deal with black women ur whole life n' u have had horrible experiences with them, once u find somethin different.. U will explore.
Am I done with black women. Not @ all! I luh my "sisters" but do I understand where da older lady is comin 4rm? Yes. Do I understand where Reggie Bush Snipes comin 4rm? Yes.
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